I want to recommend a book to you that has frankly been very disruptive for me but extremely valuable.
It is THE ONE THING by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan. Find it here on Amazon.
I have read a lot of books on life-planning, goal setting, time-blocking and identifying one's real mission and purpose in life, family, and business.
This one is now tied for first place with the now classic 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Steven Covey.
The diagrams and pictures alone, in THE ONE THING, will challenge much of the average person's conception of how our priorities have to align with our purpose if we are to really make our mark and leave a legacy.
President of NCITE